Date: 2018-11-07 10:46 pm (UTC)
mofi: (bkCrUPB)
From: [personal profile] mofi
let me c&p
But confidence is key. Knowing without a shadow of a doubt and projecting that confidence is how you dominate a person. Order them, and do so in such a way that their disobedience simply doesn't seem an option. And if they try to disobey, you scold them. A little pain is fine, but anything more than that is pure fetish.

i said i couldnt do that and then
In which case, what I'd suggest is simple: treat them like you might a servant. Set them tasks, simple but necessary, and in return take care of them, supplying them with both what they need and what they want.
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