let me c&p But confidence is key. Knowing without a shadow of a doubt and projecting that confidence is how you dominate a person. Order them, and do so in such a way that their disobedience simply doesn't seem an option. And if they try to disobey, you scold them. A little pain is fine, but anything more than that is pure fetish.
i said i couldnt do that and then In which case, what I'd suggest is simple: treat them like you might a servant. Set them tasks, simple but necessary, and in return take care of them, supplying them with both what they need and what they want.
im going to make it as lenient as i possibly can theres obviously going to be some boundaries cos there has to be im not going to treat you like a servant
what? u can have sex with whoever the hell u want and idk more like shit to do while were in public so assholes dont think were fucking with the system
yeah im not going to force you to eat something you dont want to eat. fine, walk beside me and if i do say something you dont agree with in public keep your mouth shut until we're somewhere more private or we can come up with a gesture if ur upset or uncomfortable
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Date: 2018-11-07 10:46 pm (UTC)But confidence is key. Knowing without a shadow of a doubt and projecting that confidence is how you dominate a person. Order them, and do so in such a way that their disobedience simply doesn't seem an option. And if they try to disobey, you scold them. A little pain is fine, but anything more than that is pure fetish.
i said i couldnt do that and then
In which case, what I'd suggest is simple: treat them like you might a servant. Set them tasks, simple but necessary, and in return take care of them, supplying them with both what they need and what they want.
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Date: 2018-11-08 12:45 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2018-11-08 12:57 am (UTC)theres obviously going to be some boundaries cos there has to be
im not going to treat you like a servant
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Date: 2018-11-08 02:26 am (UTC)Are you going to make me stop sleeping with other people???
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Date: 2018-11-08 02:45 am (UTC)u can have sex with whoever the hell u want
and idk more like shit to do while were in public
so assholes dont think were fucking with the system
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Date: 2018-11-08 03:06 am (UTC)Do you have any ideas what you'd make me do?
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Date: 2018-11-08 03:28 am (UTC)open the door for me?
walk behind or beside me, not in front of me?
i guess i can take your order when we go out for food
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Date: 2018-11-08 03:35 am (UTC)I'll walk beside you but not behind.
The door thing is whatever.
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Date: 2018-11-08 03:42 am (UTC)im not going to force you to eat something you dont want to eat.
fine, walk beside me
and if i do say something you dont agree with in public
keep your mouth shut until we're somewhere more private
or we can come up with a gesture if ur upset or uncomfortable
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Date: 2018-11-08 05:13 am (UTC)I MEAN IF I LET YOU CONTRACT ME
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Date: 2018-11-08 05:25 am (UTC)yeah i know this is all hypothetical